Comments on: Self-Healing

By: Bettye

Bettye — Sun, 28 Aug 2011 21:01:56 +0000

How do I find reputable teachers and learning centers where I live?

By: Mary

Mary — Fri, 12 Nov 2010 17:21:56 +0000

Maybe some counseling would be helpful, Brodie. It could help you sort this out.

By: Brodie Perry

Brodie Perry — Fri, 12 Nov 2010 03:03:52 +0000

Dear Mary, As of late i have found myself focusing alot on the negative aspects and problems of my life, even when i know i have alot to be greatfull for i just dont seem to feel happy and fullfilled, i am constantly in an inner struggle with my soul,i think alot of this is contributed to my star sign, being a pisces alot of things i have read are so negative but seem to be true , i dont want to be a martyr or weak willed and dependant,but i just dont think i have the strenght to be happy in such a hard world i just cant let my own hair down and everything i do isnt good enough, but it seems like i have no control other this because of my star sign, my head is constantly in a dream world and i find myself wasting time daydreaming all day,

By: Mary

Mary — Sun, 03 Oct 2010 16:35:23 +0000

wakindra, I think we lose balance when we live to help and give, but leave ourselves out. We are parts of a whole, giving to ourselves is no different than giving to others, and we can’t really support others if we deplete ourselves.

By: wakindra

wakindra — Sun, 03 Oct 2010 10:25:33 +0000

Dear Marry, It is so nice and moving to see how much you love and share! I feel committed since childhood to help others and this world, and for the last 13 years joined traditionnal religious life, giving myself entirely to that path which deeply satisfies me, beyond words. Yet I find myself giving myself so much away that I made myself sick(burnt out) and still make myself sick not resting enough, not relaxing enough (pushing too much) so I am loosing weight endlessly, low back pain as if (according to Tibetan doctors) I can’t “carry my own body”, and sometimes the physical weakness affects my mind, making me cry for any moving situation or thought, sometimes insomnia, etc. I guess this lack of balance is not completely related to my altrusitic view, maybe some neurosis, but due to this view, which I cherish more than my life, I am still sick, not wanting to pamper myself. (though I do take Tibetan medecine, and vitamines etc. for the last 5years) and I always eat healthy food. Sometimes I take my physical state as a spiritual purification, sometimes I think something is wrong rather. My spiritual enlightenened teacher keeps on encouraging me to push myself while he is also telling me to take care of my health. I don’t know how to do that, find the balance. What do you think? What advice would you give?

By: Mary

Mary — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 20:09:29 +0000

Jane, Any energy work technique that gets energy flowing through the whole system helps to resolve blocks. Reiki, Healing Touch, Therapeutic Touch might all help (as well as many others).

By: Jana Dyason

Jana Dyason — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 09:04:47 +0000

I am able to feel my energy points all along my body but not the two above my shoulders. could they be blocked and if so, what could i do to unblock them.

By: Mary

Mary — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 16:18:18 +0000

Hope,
These are obviously problems that you need professional help with, and I will assume you have been getting medical care for these problems. In addition to that, the way that you take care of yourself is important and that’s where “self-healing” comes in. We never know how much something will be able to heal. Not everything becomes completely healed, but it’s always possible to improve our situation in some way.

By: hope

hope — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 00:47:09 +0000

I suffer depression since childhood and right now I have so many sickness. My hair starting to turn gray when I was early 20, now I am 40. Right now I have gallstone and kidneystone. I am lack of energy and vitality. Can self-healing help me?

By: Mary

Mary — Sun, 29 Mar 2009 15:57:18 +0000

Hi phiG,
Changing deep-seated patterns is a gradual process. It takes time and “work”. It’s not easy, but you can most definitely heal and change. In some cases, this would be very difficult to do on your own. Finding and working with the right counsellor or therapist can really help. In our self-healing we use various “tools” and sometimes that’s a professional. We still have to do the emotional work, but the therapist can help provide a “working model” and give you tools and support to move forward. Wishing you well!